“…No Loss is Token”
8 years ago today at 10:00 at night I received a call from my mother.
“I have the most awful news. Dad is dead.”
The next day I sat in the living room of my parents home
12 hours away from mine.
The Winter light came in through the window,
off the snow,
and I cried.
Today a poem appeared in my email box from the American Academy of Poets,
my daily poem.
Here it is proving, yet again, that Poets give voice
to that which we cannot.
God Bless the Poets.
God Bless you Daddy,
Where ever you are,
I Love You.
Jen
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Token Loss
By Kay Ryan
To the dragon
any loss is
total. His rest
is disrupted
if a single
jewel encrusted
goblet has
been stolen.
The circle
of himself
in the nest
of his gold
has been
broken. No
loss is token.
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My mother lived with Wernicke Karsakoff;
alcoholics dementia.
Her dementia caused short term memory loss and difficulty solving problems.
The night my father died, my mother, in her dementia,
did not call 911.
A call to 911 would have saved my father’s life.
Alcoholism Kills.
Love you, Dearest Jen. It never stops hurting, but we grow around it. ❤
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katharinetrauger said this on January 11, 2014 at 12:22 am |
The reminders never disappear. Sorry for your loss.
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Let's CUT the Crap! said this on January 11, 2014 at 7:41 am |
My thoughts are with you, Jen dear.
Peace and blessings,
Eric
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Eric Alagan said this on January 11, 2014 at 9:27 pm |
Love this. Thanks for the bejeweled goblet. We can raise it in toast, to your Dad.
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4initalia said this on January 16, 2014 at 4:52 pm |
What a touching tribute… Thank you for your inspiration.
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Al K Hall said this on February 1, 2014 at 1:57 pm |
Nice words and sentiments. Hope you’re doing well Jen, and enjoying the new year…
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Marc Latham said this on February 12, 2014 at 10:02 am |
I haven’t heard about you since this post. You okay? Just busy?
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Let's CUT the Crap! said this on February 21, 2014 at 4:53 pm |